I was sitting in Starbucks feverishly working away this evening on the new school web presence I am developing. I love those T-mobile hotspots!
This guy came in, sat behind me, and began talking on a cell phone. He was virtually arguing rather heatedly with the other person. I was becoming increasingly annoyed as he was laboriously going over and over the same things. If I had been the person on the other end of the call, I would have long since hung up.
His comments were grandiose, overstated, and indicative of a highly inflated sense of importance. He was angry that the person with whom he spoke had wrongly presumed to set policy in a meeting with civil rights leaders thus exceeding the authority he had been granted. He belabored his displeasure and admonitions.
After about a half hour of this never-ending phone call, the man relocated in the coffee shop and now sat directly across from me where I could see him. I had not turned around to look at him when he was behind me as I was trying to stay focused and productive.
Much to my shock, he was not on the phone at all. While seated in front of me, he began another vigorous conversation with an imaginary person. I thought that he perhaps had a tiny wireless bluetooth headset for his cell phone. No, he was having yet another conversation with no one.
This conversation was on a completely different topic. He would gesture to the imaginary person, lean forward speaking in greater earnest, pause as if the person were replying to him and then respond to the imaginary reply, he even looked directly into the imaginary person's eyes as if in an attempt to discern some true or deeper meaning as he spoke.
At this point, I was becoming very annoyed by him. He was talking a little bit too loudly for me to tune him out. So, out came the iPod headphones, which I plugged into my laptop and cranked up the volume. I could now easily ignore the poor man.
This was very sad. After about an hour, he left. Who takes care of this man? What caused his problem? What exactly was his problem? He was rather educated in that his vocabulary was sophisticated and was at times highly specialized: medicine, military operations, and the civil rights movement.
Sad indeed.
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